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Monday, December 30, 2019

Getting to know our town: Restaurant #1

For our first dinner out on the town, we decided to go to Nonni's, an Italian restaurant just steps from our temporary home.  Walking there and back as the snow was falling was half of the magic of the night, and the other half was the experience at Nonni's.

The food was all delicious, made on-site by Nonni herself.  But the best part was when Nonni's daughter came out to talk with us.  She asked if she could pull up a chair and then proceeded to make us feel like family.  She loved Rayna (having worked with special needs kids for decades), danced with Jinna, teased the boys, and told me to come stop over and have coffee with her some afternoon so we could become fast friends.

We all left with such huge smiles and felt so welcomed!  Can't wait to go back.


Friday, December 27, 2019

First day in the new town

After our last 3 weeks of upheaval, I anticipated spending our first day here completely on the couch, zoned out.  But then I was too excited to do stuff, so I never sat down until now.

We realized this morning that we needed a couple things -- like printer paper and batteries -- so we walked up to Rite-Aid a couple different times.  The good news is that our house is 3 doors down from Rite-Aid.  The bad news is that we have to pass Dunkin Donuts each time.  Way too much temptation.

We also needed a few things like drinking glasses and a cutting board so I set out for the local Wal-Mart.  Not only was there NO traffic whatsoever for the 2 miles to get there, but there were also plenty of parking spaces very close to the store, and it was not crowded at all!  The first people we saw as we were walking in were this sweet family.... 

We're definitely not in NC anymore.

After a nice chat with the college student who was our cashier (he had to leave his puppy with his parents about an hour away because his new apartment doesn't allow pets, not even a goldfish if you can believe it), we headed over to the Sherwin-Williams store.

I inquired about some floor samples, which the nice young man (who commutes here from Cranberry, can't decide if he should just get an apartment here) quickly supplied for me.  He told me I could check some out if I wanted to take them home to try them out.  I responded that I would love to do that and asked him what information he needed from me.

"Oh, don't worry about it," he said. "Just bring them back when you're done with them."  I told him I thought that was pretty unusual to just let people take things like that and he just said, "Oh, it's a small town.  People are pretty friendly around here."

We also walked over to our new house a couple times today, to see the progress on our kitchen and dining room:


Guess they're not finished yet.  ;)

 During the total of 15 minutes that we were there, we were greeted by not one but 2 sets of neighbors!  Our new next-door neighbors have 7 kids, ranging from 10 to 20-something, so I think we will have a lot in common.  In fact, the woman quickly bonded with Jinna because she was adopted as a baby from South Korea!  The husband in the other family we met works for the federal government -- underground below an old mine somewhere around here.  Whaaaa?  Who knew there was such a thing!

On our walks between the 2 houses we stopped to get some kombucha at the coffee shop and some chocolates at the homemade candy store...  This town is not going to be good for my waistline. 

At each shop that we went in everyone was so friendly and welcoming.


Then we walked over to lower campus so we could enjoy the nicer weather (very unusual 'round here we keep hearing).  The boys flew their drone a few times today.  Once it landed on the field house roof and Pete had to get them up there to rescue it.  Then, about 47 seconds after I took this picture, the drone went out of range and flew up over the pine trees way in the distance.  We had to run to chase it, eventually finding in the parking lot of "North" dorm,  up on upper campus.  Always an adventure.

Life in a small town sure seems to have some pretty great benefits.  Looking forward to Day 2!

Thursday, December 26, 2019

Christmas Day

What an unusual Christmas this was.  Not only were we not "home" as we opened gifts in the morning, but I also spent most of the day in burst of tears as I kept thinking about how we were about to leave our extended family -- and Strider -- the next day.

Of course there was plenty of JOY, too.... the kids loved their gifts.  I think all 5 were surprised and happy.

 









When we got to my parents' house the JOY just multiplied as even more gifts were distributed and opened...






I think Mom and Dad were happy with their gas firepit from the group:



The kids enjoyed flying a drone out on the golf course for quite awhile, and then we had a fantastic lasagne dinner Mom had prepared for all 31 of us.  (How??)



Then it was time for blessings... and the family all prayed for us.... and I sobbed and sobbed.



We have loved, loved, loved being close to the family over all the years.... It won't be the same when we're far away.  So thankful for all the love in this group!


Tuesday, December 24, 2019

Christmas Eve

What a warm and happy Christmas Eve we had!  The weather was PERFECT, so we enjoyed lots of time outside on Dan and Amy's lovely patio (which will only be theirs for another couple of months since they are moving in February).

 The boys played a ton of football, of course...

After dinner we had sang some carols, including a rousing rendition of Andrew Peterson's "begats" song

.... and then Grandma Deuce made her annual appearance to the excitement of all the kids.

As Grandma Deuce started "Karin's Christmas Walk," Strider turned to me and said, "This is the book I've heard/read the most times in my life -- and I still don't really know what it's about!"  It changes every year as Grandma Deuce appears to suffer from confusion and dementia.

A perfect night with this family!




Sunday, December 22, 2019

Christmas parties

'Tis the season to celebrate -- and we sure have!

Jinna's and Miles' CC friends gathered for an ornament exchange...


Colsen's class had a white elephant exchange and some minute-to-win-it games...



We will miss this tutor so much!
We strolled around downtown Waxhaw -- and got ice cream at the creamery with the Bedingfields...

I shared with the Redeemer women one last time at the Advent Event..


And the Wray ladies all got lunch at First Watch on my birthday!  (including Mom, but she was taking this picture)



Thursday, December 19, 2019

A library and an airport

The title sounds booorrrrriiing.... but the night was anything but!

 Many of the Wrays met at the Billy Graham Library to take in the sights and sounds of Christmas.

There were a bunch of live animals -- including camels and a kangaroo....?

Afterwards we caravaned over to the airport to await the arrival of the California contingent.

As they were coming down the escalator we carolled, "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" and had some strangers around us join in.  Pretty sure some of the California contingent were a little bewildered and overwhelmed and may have wanted to turn around and head back up the escalator -- but thankfully they faced the music and continued coming down to us.



Now the family is complete!

Sunday, December 15, 2019

Church Farewell Party

As I've already noted, it's quite hard to say goodbye to the church you've been part of for such a long time.  Redeemer was good to us to the very end, throwing us an amazing party that was a perfect farewell.





 Dan wrote questions for a "Menti" trivia game that everyone played on their phones. (He also told everyone I was his much older sister, that I was 54 and he was 40, but I may forgive him for that someday)  Very fittingly, the Averills won; they are some of the first friends we met at Redeemer 16 years ago when our kids were toddlers. 

Then some people shared some very kind words, and at the end they prayed for us  -- and we were very grateful.





 Thank you dear Redeemer friends!